What was your most un-Christmassy Christmas?

What Was Your Most Un-Christmassy Christmas?

Have you ever stopped to mull over all the Christmasses you’ve had, and thought about the happiest, the saddest, the weirdest, and – I’ve invented a new category – the most un-Christmassy Christmas? Which could also be the happiest, saddest or weirdest Christmas.

Great Expectations

It’s difficult for me to pinpoint my happiest Christmas, but near the top of the list is when I was seven and a half months pregnant with my first child. Admittedly, I had to put up with the heat (for which Christmas in Australia is notorious), but at our extended family Christmas, I was given the most comfortable chair, waited on like royalty, could eat as much I wanted without worrying about putting on weight and was given a leave pass from the washing-up,  all overlaid with the joyous anticipation of impending motherhood.

I didn’t even mind the tired jokes about making sure we had a ready supply of towels and boiling water. (I’ve never known the reason for the boiling water – for a cup of tea, perhaps?  Though if anyone had offered me a cup of tea while I was in labour I would have thrown it at them.  Maybe it’s for the onlookers).

The magic of Christmas

When I was a child, Christmas was always magic – putting up the Christmas tree and decorations, oohing and aahing at the glittering night lights, singing our favourite carols around the piano and the agonizing anticipation of Santa’s arrival. Christmas Day seemed to take forever to arrive and every day I would ask my mother more than once, ‘how many days until Christmas?’ until I’m sure she was on the verge of doing something very un-festive.

When Christmas Eve finally rolled around, we did the usual putting out of soft drink and Christmas cake for Santa’s supper, and apple or carrot for the reindeer. The next morning the glass was empty and the cake and reindeer food had vanished, undeniable proof (not that we needed it) of Santa’s existence.

Elementary, my dear Watson

But at eight I discovered the truth by a clever process of deduction. I realised that Santa’s handwriting – ‘with love from Santa’ – on the gift cards sticky-taped to our presents was the same as my mother’s.  She buckled under my interrogation and admitted her deception, at the same time probably kicking herself for her oversight.  The game was up; the magic dissipated overnight and didn’t reappear again until I had children of my own.

The saddest Christmas was decades later when we brought my mother home from her aged care facility to spend Christmas Day with us. There were lots of laughs and photos and she appeared to enjoy herself, but we knew it would probably be her last Christmas Day spent away from the facility, due to her advanced stage of Alzheimer’s.  (It turned out we were right; she died a couple of years later).

No room at the inn

On a lighter note, my most un-Christmassy Christmas – and probably the weirdest as well – was  when I was nineteen, backpacking around New Zealand with a friend during our university holidays. On Christmas Eve we ended up in Picton, a town in the South Island.

The only accommodation we could find was not, unfortunately, a stable. A stable would have been very welcome. After we’d exhausted all the options, one of the holiday parks took pity on us and offered us a tree.  A large, sturdy tree and as a Christmas special, free of charge.

We had no tents, so we rolled out our sleeping bags on the grass and gazing up at our vast, star-studded ceiling, we drifted off to sleep under the tree’s generous embrace.  (Fortunately it didn’t rain). We were woken at dawn by the shouts of children speeding around the park on their brand new bikes, testing their bells for volume and durability. 

E. T. phone home!

Some of the families invited us to share Christmas lunch with them, but we decided to push on in the hope of finding a proper bed for the next night. We managed to get a ride out of town and at lunch time we came upon an open take-away food store. Our Christmas lunch was a meat pie and ginger beer, sitting on a seat outside the store in the still heat, in a small town that felt like the end of the earth.  

I can’t remember where we ended up that night (though we did find a room with a bed), but I remember feeling very homesick for the family whose shackles I’d been so keen to throw off, and relieved once Boxing Day arrived and life could continue as normal.

A minimalist Christmas

To some, the way my partner and I spend Christmas these days might seem un-Christmassy.  My children are adults and living away from home, and although I can usually count on at least one coming home for Christmas, we don’t bother with a Christmas tree, decorations or carol nights.

I do admit, though, to still oohing and aahing when driving at night and coming upon houses - and whole streets - festooned with Christmas lights.  We dispensed with Christmas presents long ago, preferring to give donations to charity. You could say it’s the lazy person’s way out, but it’s also more satisfying.

A champagne toast for breakfast

So that leaves what I consider are the most enjoyable and enduring aspects of Christmas – family, friends and food. And the one day of the year I can have champagne for breakfast.

What was your happiest, saddest, weirdest or most un-Christmassy Christmas?  Reveal all in the comments box below.

About the Author Robin Storey

Robin Storey is an Australian author from the Sunshine Coast in Queensland, Australia. She is a certified book nerd and has no weird hobbies or unusual pets.

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Angela Cassidy says December 8, 2017

My most un-Christmasy Christmas was when I was young. Pre-Teen. My sister and I woke up one Christmas morning and were crushed. There were no presents under the tree. Being young we woke up early full of excitement. The time was probably 6:00am though or around about. When we ran to our parents bedside upset and crying that Santa hadn’t come my Mom told us to go back to bed that Santa just hadn’t come yet. Crestfallen, back to our room we went. An hour or so later our Mom came and got us telling us that Santa had finally come. — For me, that was the end of Santa. Kids had been telling me for years that he wasn’t real, but I really didn’t want to believe them. Now though, I knew they were right. — I was a good big sister for the next couple of years, and played along in front of my sister that Santa was real. I wanted her to believe in Santa for as long as she wanted. I found new joy in helping to wrap and hide “Santa” gifts. — I’ve forgotten once myself, as a grown up, to put the presents under the tree. Those were years when most gifts were last minute pruchases from bonus checks and you spent most of Christmas Eve night wrapping them. The difference for us though was that everyone’s gifts were all in gift bags. So, kind of like looking for Easter Eggs from the Easter Bunny, my kids got to search the house for their Christmas Bags. Send them off in one direction while you put the bag somewhere else for them to find. (Because you don’t want them to find your hiding spot next year.) It worked out, although I think my oldest son was suspicious as I had been near his age.
As for hot Christmas’s? I live in the middle of the state of Florida in the USA on the west coast. We see more hot Christmas’s than cold ones, and forget the snow. Almost never for even flurries. Our White Christmas comes from movies as well. Not so unlike yourself. Do like we do and build yourself a snowman on the beach, or buy a plastic one from the store for your yard. 🙂

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    Robin Storey says December 11, 2017

    Hi Angela
    I bet your parents were kicking themselves about forgetting to put the presents under the tree. As a parent I never forgot the Xmas presents, but the tooth fairy did forget to come one night and I somehow managed to assure my daughter that she probably had a lot of teeth to collect (in fact, was probably working overtime with no extra pay) and she would be back the next night. Fortunately the tooth fairy remembered the next night and left two dollars instead of one, as an apology for forgetting.

    I was in Florida in April this year and I can attest to how hot it gets. A snowman on the beach (a sandman) sounds like a great idea! 🙂

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Bruce Avery says December 9, 2017

Christmas 1968 in Vietnam has to be at the top of my list……..

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